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Showing posts with label Splash. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Splash. Show all posts

Monday, November 26, 2012

Splash Part 2

Trigger Warning: Brief mention of murder and some abusive autism treatments in SECOND PARAGRAPH, mention of transplant discrimination in LAST TWO PARAGRAPHS. The rest should be trigger free.

Splash continued well. The second day, fewer people got lost on the way to learn to make chainmail, and I even had time to learn byzantine using a sample a friend of mine made. (I originally taught him to make chainmail, and then I learn Byzantine from him and get a sample piece to learn European 3-in-1 from him too! Teaching pays off!)
The Autism 101 class went well too. People did have a good bit of getting-lost-induced difficulty, which is totally understandable considering that this was way out in the middle of nowhere compared to the Infinite Corridor where most things were, but once people were there, it was good. This second section came in much better at the point of the guessing who is and isn't autistic thing- they got pretty well that you can't tell from a paragraph if a person is autistic or not. They also didn't do anything hilariously wrong like conclude that Amy wasn't autistic because her introduction didn't mention that she communicates by typing and does not speak. (Yes, I am fairly sure that Amy left that out of the introduction on purpose, and yes, it led to a great teaching moment in the first section of Autism 101 where I basically said, "And if I told you Amy didn't speak, would that change anything?" and everyone said that it did.) And they were interested in letting me ramble about Autism Rights, which is win. Plus they thought that bleach enemas made no sense and that there was no logical reasons for vaccines to cause autism and that killing an autistic kid was not covered by the "don't judge until you've walked in a person's shoes" thing. (Some things, like a messy house, are covered by that, and others, like, you know, murder, are not.)
Classes were tiring, since this was an eight hour day of teaching, and then, at the end, I helped on the search team when a kid got lost. I wasn't on the team that found the kid, and I'm not going to say anything about the kid except that this kid was found about ten minutes into the search and everything was fine.
After the search and more clean-up, we had the usual post-event teacher/volunteer dinner, which was great. It really was. I hung out with a friend of mine who I taught chainmail and who was one of the other chainmail teachers, and I hung out with someone who taught one of the psychology classes that a lot of my Autism 101 students were also signed up for, which was cool. Basically, the second day of Splash was made of just as much win as the first, though I was up past midnight for it and have still not caught up on sleep.
Oh, and I need to write more about the petition about stopping transplant discrimination. I think that's going to be the post after next or the next one, depending on what happens with the person who misrepresented Autistic Hoya and the writer of it on a piece about misrepresentation...
In any case, there is a shortlink to the petition, and it is this: http://wh.gov/X4yM . Go share it. Get more people to sign it, seriously.

Monday, November 19, 2012

Splash Part 1

On the first day of Splash (this is my third year teaching at Splash, and my only constant has been chainmail,) I had one section of my intro autism course and one section of my chainmail course. The autism one was quite a refreshing change. No one thought a bleach enema was a good idea. No one thought that "autistic people are born autistic" and "vaccines cause autism" were somehow compatible. (They aren't, and vaccines don't cause autism.) The first question that I got when I mentioned that some people thought vaccines caused autism? "Why did they think that?" When I talked about how there was one study that got retracted for study fraud, the next question was who paid the doctor to do the study, and was it lawyers who possibly had a mother around wanting to sue? (As far as I know, that's pretty much what happened, though I don't have all the details.) Basically, I was dealing with people who thought science and logic still applied when dealing with autism. Some of the people I see on the internet get that science and logic still apply, but it was so refreshing to be in an environment where everyone got that these still work with how to raise autistic kids. They seemed genuinely interested in the "what do I do if someone is having a meltdown?" question. The answer was basically that if the person has told you how to handle their meltdowns before, do that no matter how counter-intuitive it may seem. If not, look for possible sensory triggers, and if there are any, get rid of those. Get rid of any possible situational triggers too. (If the person is still communicative, check to make sure those things are actually related to the problem.) Once as much getting triggers away from the person/getting the person away from the triggers as possible has happened, back off. Back way off. And people listened. I love it when people are actually willing to listen to what autistic adults have to say about autism, since it's kind of relevant. It was great.
The guessing activity went pretty well, too. They did slightly better at guessing who was and was not autistic than I guessed in that no one neurotypical got guessed to be autistic. (I had two neurotypical engineering students who wrote introductions of themselves.) They still managed to miss quite a few of the autistic people- neither of the autistic adults who had that "classic" autism diagnosis got guessed as definitely autistic, for example. That made for a pretty good teaching moment. One I went with, "If I told you that this person did not speak, only typed, would your answer change?" With that piece of information, everyone switched from thinking she was definitely not autistic to thinking she definitely was autistic, which was interesting and made the point about how a one paragraph introduction didn't actually give enough information to tell if a person was autistic or not. (OK, some of the paragraphs did, but those were the ones where some really obvious autism traits got mentioned.)
The chainmail (armor, not letters) class was also pretty good, except for the part where my classroom was next door to the class on trash can drumming. That was quite the literal headache. It also ran in the last time block of the night, from 8-10pm. Since I often go to sleep between 8 and 9, that's a late class! I'm actually writing this on the train to where I am sleeping between the first and second nights as I write this, and I'm writing this partially to help myself stay awake. I'm pretty tired, and tomorrow I have another section of my autism class and three more of chainmail. Then there is the teacher dinner and I get my tuchus back to school.

Saturday, November 17, 2012

Oh My Life

So last night I stayed up much too late working on a grant application for a couple reasons. One is "Oh, hi executive functioning! I have some real trouble with you!" since I do have some trouble with that. The other is that I was off at the ASAN gala and a panel about disability and inclusion in the humanities. I was not on the panel or anything, but I have two friends from online who were! That was actually a great time, which I will talk about later. Now I am tired. I am very tired, since I got insufficient sleep Monday night in order to be prepared and caught up for leaving Tuesday, insufficient sleep Tuesday night because we got in late from the drive to DC (we got lost, among other things, but mostly lost in Secaucus,) insufficient sleep Wednesday night because Gala, Gala running late, and hanging out talking to people after the Gala, insufficient sleep Thursday night because getting in late from the drive home from DC (got lost in Secaucus again), hopefully sufficient sleep tonight (please!), and then planning on insufficient sleep both Saturday and Sunday nights thanks to Splash, which will be awesome.
I really am looking forward to Splash. I've been teaching there for a while, and I was a student there before I taught. Among other things, I took generating functions, fractional calculus, and make chainmail when I was a student there. Make chainmail was a lot of fun- it's the medieval armor kind, not the spam kind, and it makes a great thing to do with my hands. (Yes, I made chainmail during class in my senior year of high school. It was something to do with my hands and landed me an awesome prom dress.) Now I teach. I'm running an activity about autism, too, and I'm looking forward to that since I have more experience of what Autistic culture is like post-gala and I figure that is relevant and also talking about things I'm interested in is awesome.
And that's basically that. Busy week, busy weekend. Sometime I'll manage to get enough sleep, and something tells me that's going to be Thanksgiving.